40 years

Today my parents celebrate their 40th wedding anniversary. When I tell people how long my parents have been together, they are amazed that two people can sustain a relationship that long. I have seen the work they have put into staying together. I have watched my parents go through extreme hardship as well as immense joy. Through it all, they have had each other. I think the most important thing, in my perspective, that has kept their love alive is mutual respect, friendship and commitment no matter what. They have raised 5 children with discipline, love and humor.

They did everything in their power to give us firm foundations in order to become functional in the real world. This included going to church every week, eating dinner together, discipline, family vacations, visiting grandparents often, taking us to the library and museums, singing songs of hope (folk music galore), lots of hugs and kisses, telling us they love us and forgiving us when we made mistakes. I owe so much to my parents for their leadership and commitment to each other and us. Even for the times I don't agree with them, I am lucky to be able to voice my opinion with them and be heard.

So today I want to say thank you for everything, including 4 of my best friends (Chris, Jenny, Liz and Tyler).

I love you guys!